Your Bonus Materials
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Thank You!
Thank you so much for ordering Messy Mourning and for taking the time to submit your bonus claim.
I’m grateful for your support and honored to share these bonus materials with you. These resources were created to walk gently beside you as you read, reflect, pray, and continue navigating grief one day at a time.
A Gentle Note
Please move through these resources at your own pace.
Grief does not follow a tidy timeline, and you do not need to rush your way through reflection, prayer, memory, or healing.
Take what is helpful. Leave what is not. Return when you need to.
You are not alone.
Resource Downloads
Playlist + Listening Guide
A Spotify playlist and listening guide offer a gentle companion for early grief mornings, sleepless nights, and tender moments — with songs chosen to bring comfort, honesty, hope, and support.
30-Day Psalms
This 30-day guide through the Psalms of lament offers Scripture-centered encouragement, honest reflection, and space to bring your grief, questions, and tears before God one day at a time.
What Helps
This may be shared with friends, family, or your church community, so they will know what helps (and what can unintentionally hurt) after the loss of your child.
Surviving the Firsts
These worksheets offer gentle space to reflect, process emotions, honor memories, and care for yourself through the difficult “firsts” after suicide loss — one moment, one memory, and one breath at a time.
Messy Mourning Chapter Companion
This companion guide offers reflection questions, journaling prompts, Scripture, and gentle encouragement to help you process grief after suicide loss one chapter at a time, with reminders that your grief matters and you are not alone.
Playlist
A Spotify playlist offering a gentle companion for early grief mornings, sleepless nights, and tender moments — with songs chosen to bring comfort, honesty, hope, and support.